We went through IVF 3 years ago and delivered a beautiful boy, we both did genetic testing at that time. Recently the clinic reached out and asked my husband's permission for his blood work and sperm for research. He declined because they won't tell him anything or provide research results. Then they reached out again to offer to pay him $2400 per sperm load. What the heck is this?? Did anyone go through this?

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I’d be very curious about what they wanted to use it for

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Me too. He asked, the clinic just said research and they can't share any results with us. Which is uncomfortable

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When you did the genetic testing did your husband come back as having or being a carrier for any condition?

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That is really strange!! I would want to know why they picked him

Would they also do postnatal testing on your son as part of the research or would it just be on your husband’s genetic material?

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No. They just asked for my husband's.

That feels a bit odd, especially without any information being shared, but if there are restrictions on how it will be used, maybe you just found an easy way to boost your son's college fund? I do hope your husband and family are okay, of course! Maybe your husband has a unique trait that can be studied and help a lot of other people too! Might be worth looking into before making a decision.

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What would be the downside of doing it?

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Also - the rate for sperm donation is much much lower… i would be so curious as well. Must be a specific very rare trait they are looking for is my best guess

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