What are the key things you would say when asking a higher up to be your mentor?

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Literally ask

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Ignore M1. That’s so weird to ask “will you be my mentor?”

There are structured and unstructured mentor constructs. If it’s structured, they’re assigned to you. If it’s unstructured, it happens organically over time.

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"can we meet periodically to discuss the business, let me pick your brain and share insights"

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This. Using the term mentor as an initial request is awkward. Have a meeting, see how you two get on, if you find value from the conversation. If you do, email later and say you really appreciated their time then ask if you could meet again. It doesn't need a label.

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I asked once and they just said no 😂

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‘I want to hitch my wagon on your horse’ is what I said to my now current mentor who has helped me a lot over the past 3 years after we bonded on the first project.

Or horse to his wagon, was awhile ago

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Do you like Huey lewey and the news?

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Do you like gladiator movies?

I asked mine if I could be the toothless to his hiccup it worked.

Don’t ask. That’s weird. I would start asking them for advice at real things you need advice on. It will be clear you view them as a source of wisdom. If you’re not comfortable enough with them to do that, find a new mentor.

Build from there and trust will build on both sides. Pretty soon you have a mentor.

Don’t be weird and ask random ppl “will you be my mentor”

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Negative thoughts on repeat is like hitting the “Like” button on negativity:

“I can’t change.”
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“This is all I know.”

Negative self talk will produce more negative self talk.

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It takes time to change thought patterns.

A coach will get you there faster.

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