What would you guys do if you were me - The relationship is/was perfect but due to some personal troubles in life she needs time away (no shes not talking to someone else i’d know if that was the case)

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If the relationship was strong, it’s important to respect her need for space while being supportive. Give her the time she needs, but also communicate how you’re feeling. Sometimes, a little distance can help both people reflect and come back stronger. If this is a pattern though, or you sense that she may not be ready for commitment, you may have to move on sooner than later. Best of luck, hope things work out!!

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Thank you - will keep in mind!

How long was it and what’s your age(s)

2 months, ignore the ages for now (but we’re the same age for some context)

Are you married or engaged? If so this is concerning. If not then you really don’t have a choice/say in anything, I would still see this as a red flag if you were considering this person for marriage

If she needs time away, you should ask yourself if that is time away from you or why she could not deal with this together with you...

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