Why am I always the only one asking guys if they are top/bttm/verst on dating apps ? Is it not “proper” ?? I’m talking hinge/tinder

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That’s appropriate upfront information for hook up apps like grinder. But for dating apps, I think it’s totally appropriate that that comes through conversation/chatting.

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If I’m on an app where I’m trying to have an actual conversation that leads to dates (not just hooking up) and that’s something someone asks early in the convo, I stop talking to them

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But what if it’s 2 bottoms!! lol

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As a top, I know before I even swipe

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Everyone’s a bottom until they prove it otherwise

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Whatever is wanted😉lol

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