I’m very much in love with a co-worker and I’m married, how bad of an idea is taking it further?

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What does “taking it further” mean?

Divorcing your SO and having a relationship with them? Or just cheating?

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Wtf

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Whatever happened here?

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Did you have a "entanglement" too?

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