You guys ever been in a situation where you found someone who was everything you ever wanted except they had 1-2 serious bad habits and they just couldn’t quit it. What did you do?

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Bad habits don’t change, they get further entrenched as you get older.

Don’t settle; you deserve better.

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Emotional abuse. Don’t do it

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Yes lol. The bad habits got worse with time. Sometimes that can happen because they take you for granted. We just have one side here, but in order to help you, it’s very important to self reflect how you’ve wronged them too. What do they say about you? Anything that triggers them to act that way? The trigger piece can be gaslighting btw and not a good justification to mistreat anyone, but usually takes two to tango. What is something you can do better? Do you get really mean during fights that causes them to disengage? If you’re scared to break up, you should definitely take a break for a few months, and see if you really miss them. Don’t get back together unless you both genuinely realize how you wronged the other person and how you plan to make it amazing (better isn’t good enough).

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Hmm I never. But maybe ask urself how far u can compromise and she/he’s too. There should be something in the middle for both of you. If she/he’s don’t even try to also sacrifice then that’d be a no for me.

That sounds a very work-able situation though. If there is no effort to work on it I’ll walk away. Can’t afford the suffering for the rest of my life

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