Accepting im a mediocre associate as someone who has been an overachiever my whole life has been the toughest pill to swallow

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This realization honestly set me free - I was so focused on being perfect that it became the enemy of getting anything done; I spent much of my first two years paralyzed to turn in anything lest it be criticized. Accepting that I was just kind of “meh” at this job let me relax - I still show up and do my best, but I’m not jockeying for position or stressing about everything the partners say to me. Basically this is your opportunity to rebrand into a personality hire and see if connecting socially without a death-grip on the job helps you develop connections with your colleagues that turn into you getting staffed

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You are more than just your job.

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That’s right. You are also your work product.

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How have both formal and informal reviews of your work gone? In the formal review context, has your work been described as “mixed” or needing improvement? You are best positioned to know, but unless you have received criticism of your work, some of this may be in your head. Still, I trust there is some basis for the way you feel, so even if you’re not close to any particular partner, I would suggest having a talk with whichever one seems the nicest and voicing your concerns. Hopefully you will get some concrete things to work on and ways to improve your standing.

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What makes you think you’re mediocre?

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Yeah agree with A3…. Are you personable and try to chat up partners?

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