All of these attacks on black professionals and DEI dog whistles is really affecting me mentally. And watching all these corporations and firms fall in line gutting already non existent and toothless diversity initiatives doesn’t help.

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I completely understand. Between 2023 and 2024, I felt the same way. At first, I couldn't figure out why I was taking gutting DEI so hard. Then, I realized that I was grieving. I felt so stupid for believing the DEI wave that came after George Floyd's murder. Between Loretta Lynch’s DEI speeches for law firm partners and Nancy Pelosi kneeling in African clothes, I was knee-deep in the belief that this country was changed. Then, it was all just snatched away within minutes.

If this were a romantic relationship, it would be considered psychological abuse. It's like when an abusive partner takes you on a fancy dinner and then smacks you when you get home. We were gaslighted, and it hurt.

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I hear you. You just have to focus on what you can control. Help with mentoring and recruiting Black lawyers. Corporations and law firms were never going to save us.

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