alright london consultants. what are we budgeting when it comes to engagement rings.

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2 weeks pay. Whether it’s a week salary or several months, the important thing is to choose something she’d genuinely enjoy wearing (both stone size and price tag wise), not what others or social expectations say you should buy! If she tends to prefer a more discreet style, it’s best not to go beyond the 0.75–1 ct range.

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I would say at least about £3-5k (I bought almost 10 years ago so maybe I am a bit low) but honestly you want to have bit of a think beyond that.

Does she want to wear an overly showy ring all her life?

A high quality solitaire on a slim platinum, white gold, or gold band is the (pardon the pun) gold standard for classy engagement rings. Anything more is either new money or it is compensating for a lack of affection.

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Don’t fall for the De Beers marketing - there is no set price. Go ring shopping with her, find out what she likes, buy something that is in line with that.
I designed my wife’s ring with a jeweller based on the elements she likes - she doesn’t like over the top flash, so only ~1 carat lab grown diamond, so with the design etc it came to around £3k. And she absolutely loves it.
My sister loves vintage jewellery, so her finance bought her a lovely antique ring for even less. She doesn’t like the look of diamonds so it has a different stone. And she loves that.
Give yourself an upper limit of what you can spend, then figure out what is ideal for your finance to be, and buy that - whether it’s £100 or £10k it shouldn’t matter.

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3k for a 1 carat 😭😭😭😭

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Depends how much you love them

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2 months pay

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6 months give or take

Hell no

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