Arm rests - thoughts on how to handle a
person taking up both arm rests? Should I just deal with it? Seems like it’s dudes who take over all
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I guess the person who sits in the middle seat deserves both the arm rests. Aisle and window seats have other advantages.
I’m an aisle person.

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I agree on all accounts.

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Relevant Jim Jefferies bit on airplane etiquette: https://youtu.be/qFx1Cpxpx1E

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“I’m sorry, would you mind if I used this arm rest? I’d really appreciate it. Would that be alright?"

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Yes - push or pull ;)

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Not ok

Alpha move: Flip the armrest up and use their arm as your armrest.

Are they intentionally doing it? I admit if given a center seat it’s probably me. Reason being is that my shoulders are wider than both arm rests.

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