Broke up with my gf and started a new project recently. Any tips for handling stress? This is harder than I imagined...

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Same. Dude compartmentalize. I think about it only from 1-2pm every day. She broke up with me, and I was far more invested.

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New girlfriends.

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Cannot stress on find someone else.. you will still long for her, but if you're getting some then it's easier and you'll be much more relaxed..

In my experience breaking up makes you question whether anyone else who is that awesome will find you desirable.. by finding someone else quickly, you tell yourself that you still have it. And if she's not that amazing you can tell yourself that if you could find someone so quickly, then surely you can find someone amazing if you looked harder

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Work out and go out after work and meet woman... 21-25 year olds are always fun ;)

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I'm getting matches and messages on bumble, does that count?

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Tinder bro

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Rub n tug

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Yes

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