Can you truly overlook someone's physical appearance and just be attracted to their personality?

I turned down a guy because he's bald and his neck was barely visible 😞 A+ personality and he's actually fit... but I couldn't see myself making out with him. How do I get myself to move past physical attributes? Tried to force myself to see beyond his looks but I couldn't. Sucks when it's genuinely a great guy.

I matched with a guy and we initially agreed to meet for the first time this coming Friday. Last Wed, he sent two messages on the app with suggestions but I wasn’t able to text back until Sat because I was traveling. He unmatched me. Am I in the wrong here? How often do you text people in the talking stage? (F in early 30s here)

Serious question: When taking a girl out on a date - do you guys usually split the tab or is it more common to pick up the tab as the guy? I know it varies person to person but curious what the general consensus here is. Input from women and men appreciated!

Finance guys - Need some insight.

What firm are you at and what are your hours like? I’m mutually exclusive with a guy who’s a VP at a prominent firm. He’s been very low communication lately and says it’s work.

I really don’t have the emotional headspace to be cheated on again 😞 I’m finally dating someone I really like after getting out of a bad relationship a year ago.

Be nice, thanks in advance!!

Single 25 F. Any single males 25-30 yrs on here?

Any advice 24m

Never dated before. What confrontational questions I should get out of the way?

Both looking for marriage. Get to know each other a little bit then bring up marriage with parents.

Where is the best place to watch football on Sundays and meet a single guy in his late 20s to mid 30s?

Are the standards for what makes a black man or woman an attractive person for a potential relationship or marriage material the same for white men or women? Do we judge all 4 groups (black man, black woman, white man, white woman) the same?

Any F 🐠 fish want to grab drinks today? 32/M

This Indian matchmaking show is interesting...love how the first girl is like “my partner needs to fit in my life” 😳🙄😳🙄🤭

F Miami, 26 let’s talk 😉

Curious what anyone thinks about cologne? Is it a turn on? I am not really into it.. but I just got a whiff of this dude at the gym and the cologne did something to me 🥰 It was really subtle. I tend to just like the way a man smells (not body odor but just natural scent) and don’t usually like it covered up, but wow this guy tonight 🥵 I might might buy some but i figured it would be gay to ask him “what are you wearing” because that prob isn’t something the bros at the gym do.

How do y’all meet people (networking/prospects/otherwise)? Something besides mipster/muppies would be solid :)

Any F 🐠 want meet up for drinks tonight? 31/m

Down to chat. This seems fun 🥳 M 🐠

What are the best dating apps back home in India? In places like Bangalore.

Hello 👋🏾I'm a matchmaker and I have a few clients I'm trying to match:
- 49M, real estate developer, divorced - 1 child, LA (fitness is high on his list). - 37F, marketing manager, LA
Please note that everyone I work with is a Black Professional who is over 28, educated with at least a Bachelors degree, and earns over $75k. Feel free to DM me on IG @tenneshawood

Online dating apps are a mess 🤢

Girlfriend next to me is constantly texting her guy friend back and forth and I’m emotionally not comfortable with this. Am I normal to feel this way?

30 M in nyc, down for drinks or dinner during the week?

Does anyone have Python style guidelines that they like and can share?

Hi Guys,
Does KGS have a collective disconnect during Christmas time in India?

I recently moved to US from Georgia, I have team of developers and project manager in Georgia who are able to work remotely. Big advantage of this type of team is salary per hour because its quite low in Georgia rather than US. Because Im new here I dont have connections with businesses in this field, where can I find cofounders like this who will be interested in software development and finding clients for this team?

What is the average salary for a senior consultant in Chicago?

What is the process for a US licensed lawyer to get their license in Melbourne, AUS?

Looking for junior FP&A roles at tech companies/startups/anywhere I could work remote at least 3/5 days of the week. 1 YOE in institutional asset management. Anyone know of any opportunities?

I am wondering if I can do this. It feels daunting but also I’ve accepted an offer from another company but don’t know if it is what I want but I think I also don’t feel comfortable in my current situation. I wonder how long I could maybe do this but not sure.

Is there a specific law that allows landlords to put a restriction on the number of days am overnight guest can stay? I have been researching for hours and can't find any case law or statue. Help! (In Texas)

Best shops for puppets state side? Loving blinkink

Salary check. Recently moved to DevOps from Support Management. No salary adjustment but the company took a chance on me and let me train into the role on the job. Once I'm better-established in the role (≈1yr) what should I be asking for? Currently at $85k, Chicago area.

Stupid me thought Accenture is different. Like any other consulting firm, some MDs literally gave away their soul to the devil once you got promoted.

At what point do you draw the line on WLB? Working insane hours on a long/term project with what feels like no end in sight. It’s not sustainable but clearly expected. Could you get fired for drawing lines in the sand and saying (example) “come 8:30 every night I’m logging off”. That’s a 65 hour work week as-is but I currently am up until midnight working consistently. For context I’ve been rated as a strong performer consistently and am not new to the job so it’s not a lack of understanding.

What’s the A/S/L of Fs in here? Better yet, any Fs in the Charlotte/NC area in here?

Any book recommendations for grieving the death of an estranged parent?

Hi everyone. I needed advice on finding a secure virtual internship for public health in health promotion or health needs assessments that is research based. I know it may sound a little broad but I need a few tips on finding a site that has virtual based internship.

Decided to give a guy another chance after politely turning him down. Turns out my intuition was damn right about his ego… trust your intuition folks, not worth it.

Ugh. I was stuck on a call and forgot to buy my Powerball tickets online. Now I’m hoping there’s no winner so I could win on Wednesday. I could’ve been an almost billionaire.

Any single women like houses?

Vent post: Have a mentally ill family member who is not committed to getting the help they need (e.g., through therapy or medication). Been this way for years with no change or end in sight. Has anyone experienced something similar? Were you able to encourage that person to seek professional help? Frustrating situation and can’t figure out how to make it better.

Pretty new here! Great news ..JOB offer …however the company is lowballing salary ..I informed recruiter Amount was not acceptable …sent off the salary requirement letter …. Nail biting ..Why waste my time again …she didn’t know the budget… so we proceeded forward, her reply ..advised me to talk w hiring team but in final interview there was no opportunity to speak abt salary w hiring team ….Have to say I enjoy the posts & it’s a decent networking site!!

Last night I told my husband that I was thinking about getting my hair cut shorter - not short, but shorter - and wanted his opinion. He said “it’s your hair so it’s up to you.” While I appreciate his “your body, your choice” stance in theory, in practical terms, I wanted some actual thoughts by the person who sees my face every day on whether I should change my hair. Does he a) not want me to cut hair, b) want it to stay long but won’t say it, or c) not really care?

I have just spent a couple of days having conversations on random people on reddit using ChatGPT for my answers to them, and I am scared shitless for the future. People did not realize they were talking to an AI at all

Guy stood me and my friends up (he’s with his friends), then texted us 3 hours later to come to a different bar where he and his friends are, and apologized profusely. Said no. Do I forgive him tomorrow?

Online dating apps are a mess 🤢

Ah the wait while the background check clears, I don’t feel like working. Thoughts on things to do!?

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Girlfriend next to me is constantly texting her guy friend back and forth and I’m emotionally not comfortable with this. Am I normal to feel this way?

Getting over heartbreak and having a full time job is torture lol. My boyfriend and I just broke up after almost a year of being together. It was such a beautiful relationship but ultimately he just didn’t love me. I love him so much. My mind knows that I deserve reciprocal love and I’m worthy, but I feel physically ill. My body hurts, my stomach is in knots, my head hurts. How is it that I have to mend a broken heart but also meet my billable hours lmao

Why aren't adulterers tried in court as a form of custodial voyeurism? How are there no legal consequences whatsoever, when there used to be a death penalty? Did you know US Military members are held fully accountable and it's illegal for them? Why should the rest of society be any different?

Thinking about getting my nose done - tips/advice on recovery, pain levels, etc.?

Teeny confession/victory, but today I successfully folded hospital corners for the first time...at the age of twenty seven, I’m finally on par with an eight year old at bed making skills.

I need to let it out but I’m so fucking proud of myself and I just realized how lucky I got and it took me until just now to see it. I started in the military and it only took 2 months for me to get out and fall into a bottomless hole of depression. My transition went from: $13 an hour part time, separation with the wife, new job at $18 an hour for physical labor, hit with disability diagnosis, then $20 an hour new office job, reconnecting with wife, having 2nd kid, nearly divorcing (cont.)

How can a i do a pic reverse search on my mobile?