Christmas Gifts? Is it really a bad idea to “gift up”? I work in a small practice group of a larger firm. I am the only associate and the partners are very supportive. Can I get them gifts? I was thinking something small: baked goods, etc.

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Baked goods or something like that is lovely.

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If you are the only woman in the group, do not do baked goods. Otherwise, have at it.

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Role reversal. I’m the only man.

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A small token appreciation gifts like baked goods is fine, especially if it’s something you can target/share just within your practice group. Definitely do not feel any pressure to give something, though, and something like a gift card would feel inappropriate to give your superiors (perfectly fine for your support staff though).

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I think they would appreciate that!

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That’s a nice token of appreciation for people you enjoy working with. I don’t think it matters if they’re partners or associates if that’s your motivation.

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I would say no. Then again, I’m Scrooge-like.

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I always bought the male partners a decent bottle of bourbon.

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I buy gifts for staff and associates but honestly hope they don’t get me anything in return. A tiny gesture like baked goods or a card would be much more appreciated personally. I wish someone gave me this advice as an associate, I used to buy partners wine or whiskey.

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I only ever gifted up because you dress for the job you want and not the job. Let em know you’re coming for the top spot with some good Rolex knockoffs

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Not a really bad idea — a great idea!

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How do I opt out of this

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I do this! Same position. Large office, but small group and I’m the only associate. I adore my partners. I even get their spouses a little something. I’m probably weird, but I want to express how dear they are to me!

As others have said, your idea is a good one, OP. Totally appropriate. Baked goods, or a bottle something decent.

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