Considering move from San Mateo CA at $300k HHI to Bethesda MD at $170k HHI. Asian couple, DINK, mid 30s, renters, non-tech. We want to buy a house + not be house poor. Does anyone have any familiarity with both these areas and if housing is really more affordable in DC metro area than SF bay area? Any other costs/aspects to think about? DC coz proximity to a functional city, want a safe city suburb. Access to consulting, pharma, federal jobs. Access to Asian food. Thank you!

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Ok I don’t think housing is that much cheaper in the DC area but what exactly are you guys looking for?

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To further add to that - I think the base home price might be similar but the Bay Area home will be smaller than Maryland ; however 40% pay cut is substantial

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I feel like the DC metro area, including Bethesda, is definitely more affordable than the SF Bay Area in terms of housing. You’ll likely get more space for your money in the DC area, especially in suburbs. However, property taxes and some living costs (like groceries and services) can be higher. Bethesda is a great choice for proximity to a city, and there's definitely a strong Asian food scene. I think it sounds like a great fit honestly

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