Does anyone have experience with a finsub?
I was approached by someone asking to be one and I’m fascinated by the idea but I’m finding it difficult to play that role because professionally I actually really admire this person… 🫠

It’s an executive at a major financial institution and I really want to have this experience but literally don’t know how to go about it?

If you’ve had a finsub or have ever been a finsub please share how you’ve communicated (best practices in humiliation? 😅)

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Wow…you really do learn something new every day.

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I’ve re read the post 10 times and all the comments and still can’t figure it out

Like - does he want you to take him shopping with you and watch you try on shoes and then have you dig the heel into his hand after he puts it on your feet and have you tell him you like them but you're not sure if he's willing to buy them for you since you know he probably wouldn't be able to eat that week? Tell him he will have to work another 5 years before retiring if he tried to buy you that purse? Have him buy you lingerie and then wear the new pair out and put the old pair in his mouth and tell him you need to put something back in the piggy bank after you take something out? I'm just throwing stuff out there - I have never heard of someone with this kink lol

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If you aren't getting physical or if he reeeeally wants to be put in his place - you could have him pay for your dates or hotel rooms with other men? Maybe even send him some play by play photos from the hotel room...?

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I was offered a similar situation. The guy wanted me to log into his bank accounts, tell him how broke he was and harass him through all channels. It felt like entrapment. Be careful! Lol

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Oh goodness! Yeah that would feel so uncomfortable for sure

This executive wants to be your finsub? Do it!

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Messaging you

Are you saying they want you to be the Findomme?

If so, this may give you some information

https://findomme.org/

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I am M Dom and FimDomme is not my thing but know men who enjoy it.
Its whatever two consenting adults are into and enjoy.

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Establish an expectation of what you want your finsub to deliver..

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Sounds exciting. Ask him to sponsor us a confession trip 😆. If you have the money, maybe ask him to pay for trips like trip to Antártica

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Probably would want to ask the Kink Bowl for some thoughts.

I think a fun one might be to give him a weekly “allowance” of his own spending money and must ask for your permission to buy things outside of that. Or to even buy things with it.

Charge him for things just to maintain a regular quality of life, like taking a hot shower instead of a cold one. Sleeping with a blanket at night. Or even for getting lunch at the cafeteria instead of bringing in a PB&J sandwich. You can price all of this so that it’s impossible to do everything - which lets you comment about it during conversations or chastise him for poor money management

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This is a serious question btw 😂 I know it sounds wild but I genuinely don’t know where else to ask this question (google/Reddit wasn’t helpful)

I am more than willing to help drain his finances. Just DM me. 😂

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