Even if I did admit that I like someone, people make me sweat so I’m just going to stay home instead of ending up nervous from never-ending tension.

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You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. And you don't need to impress the masses, just 1 person. One of the most profound pieces of advice I heard was this: Fast forward to your wedding day. Do you think that you will be hung up on all of the failed dates and failed relationships, or happy and focused on the one that finally did work out?

It's rough out there and dating sucks, but don't give up hope!

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It’s good to be aware of the reactions in your body. Sounds like you have to learn how to self-soothe and regulate to calm yourself down and prevent the sweating. Create a safe space for yourself and go from there.

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