Has this ever happened to you that each time you meet your bf/gf , there is extreme nervousness from both sides ? It’s a good kind of nervousness (shyness , awkwardness) and almost feels like meeting someone you have known forever for the first time?

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Yes butterflies 🦋 😊 consider yourself lucky! „Some“ people stop developing them after their late 20s. I suppose they can come again later in life but i cant cite that. Congrats to this wonderful akwars feeling :)

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Butterflies? This is cute but it never seems to last.

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Forever? Like years into the relationship?

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