So we waited all that time to learn that Madison and Peter are just going to give it a shot against the wishes of Peters awful Mom?

I’m irritated ALL the time and it’s ruining my relationship. What’s wrong with me? lol should I just start smoking weed or get on an anti depressant?

How do I figure out spending with my SO? Initially I was paying for 90% of stuff (no actual bills, just going out). I talked to her and said we need to be more even. She was never proactive. She kind of got offended but we ended on a good note to split things. It went well for a couple weeks but now it's back to normal. She never takes out her card and only venmos me if I send her the request. She lets Venmos sit for weeks before paying them. I still let a lot of things slide.

I need 11 L to connect with friends.plz help me to get that

My marriage is beyond repair I think. Husband just said we keep having the same conversations over and over in the past year about things we’ve been trying to fix. Is a year enough time? 11 years together for reference. And I don’t think his statement is true - he literally mentioned one of those things last week that he was happy about. I just can’t do it with these vague statements in arguments.

Anyone file for divorce without a lawyer if both parties are consenting? How does it work when you don’t have any joint assets (separate bank accounts, no house) and no kids? Married <5 years

I just started a new job and am about to be 36. I want to start a family but I feel like I should be waiting due to this new job. However I don’t want to miss out. I’m thinking about freezing my eggs

How to deal with parents that want to know everything but you don’t want to tell them everything because you want to loose your job?

Hi! Have any here gone the natural cycle IVF route? What was your experience like? Did you have success in growing your family this way? Would you recommend it to others?

So… 3.5 year relationship came crashing in Jan due to covid depression, work burn out, lockdown etc. We have stayed in contact and recently he has come around to apologizing and considering getting back together. However he also revealed he started seeing someone casually 4 weeks ago and technically is cheating on her by meeting me for coffee and to discuss this. I’m upset that he’s dating others but shouldn’t be right? I mean, I did the same. Still hurts though. And I told him to sort that out

is it wrong or normal to re-develop feelings for someone you liked in the past but currently are happy and committed to someone else? I think it’s normal but 100% hurts your s/o?

HELP! 30+ years of teaching Sped and I’m at a loss. 6th grade student in Middle School with Doose syndrome. Prior to MS, the elementary said he never caused problems. Since the 1st day, he is disruptive in class, refuses to work, and is disrespectful. He has a one-on-one para but she is in tears most days because of his behavior. Parents agreed with a behavior plan - he thinks it’s a game. Parents say he is not allowed to be this way at home.

How many of us have a teacher buddy that we hang out with, after school hours??

Anyone done Certified Technical Architect program here ? What was your experience? How difficult it is to do with a full time consulting job for a single full time parent?

Is it normal to feel depressed/lonely during wedding planning? I almost feel like I can’t talk about it since other people aren’t engaged and I feel like I’m rubbing it in their faces talking about it. So I have to keep everything to myself and it’s kind of stressful

Several years ago a gay male acquaintance said he didn't date Black guys. It made me bristle but I was not surprised. Now he's married to one. I feel in a way vindicated every time I see his loving social media posts with his Black husband of like 5 years or so now.

How did he get over his apparent aversion to Black men enough to go and marry one? Where would he be if he hadn't had a change of heart?

I wish there were a tactful way to remind him he said that and watch as he eats his words...

Spending a weekend with my fiancé’s family out of town and quite literally my future FIL burps out loud 10x a day with no shame and his mom is a narcissistic monster in law just have no clue how these bizarre ppl created such a lovely person in my fiancé. Don’t need advice, just want to bitch. Can anyone relate??

It’s been 3 years since I (27F) moved to Seattle and still don’t have a solid social circle. Not necessarily a big group… I’m talking 3-4 friends who are easy going and not flakey/ hard to make plans with.

Idk if it’s due to Covid, Seattle freeze, a combination of the two or other factors. Any transplants out there who are NOT the outdoorsy type and feel the same? And if so, how did you get past it?

I have a request for interim relief pending before the court filed last Tuesday. It usually takes 1-3 Business days for a disposition. It’s now going on the 5th business day. I want to reach out to the court to follow up but don’t know how to phrase it. We need it decided like today. Any suggestions? It’s also an appellate court so I’d just be contacting the clerks office now the judge/chambers itself.

How do you find out who’s “top bucket” and who’s not? Do they disclose this? Also how do you become one?

Are you doing what you thought you would be when you took out your student loans? If so, do you feel like taking out your loans was worth it?

Hi guys.
What should be the salary of a salesforce commerce cloud certified developer with 8 years of experience. Current ctc is 26lpa. How much should i ask for?
Thanks in advance.

I am leaving my comfortable uninspiring job and taking a risk without next job lined up. Idiot or smart?

What PR agencies have creative departments? I know Weber and Edelman do - but any others?

Any defenses to put in an answer regarding violation of the IL Residential Real Property Disclosure Act.? Buyer is suing client pro se after discovering mold in the property from a tenant after taking possession. Seller didn’t know but there was a leak issue in the past. Other advice is appreciated.

Best area to live in if you're in your late 20's? Specific apartment building reccs also welcome!

Desi Fam,

Does anyone use Indian sim outside of India for otp and authentication purpose ?

If yes, which service provider and plan is the best ?

TIA

Hi Sharks,

One of my friends is looking to switch companies.

Profile - SQL developer
YOE - 3 years
Current CTC - 6.5 lpa

How much should be her expected CTC?

Has anyone regretted going in-house as patent counsel? If so, were you able to successfully transition back to a firm?

When did you decide to get medicated? I have what I’d call “high functioning” depression and anxiety. See a therapist and all, but still deal with lows that seem hard to overcome for weeks on end - losing interest, hard to focus on work, sleeping difficulties, etc. Hard to tell when to make that decision!

Anyone else into idex, zom and Mara?

Hi Folks,

Just wanted to know till when is work from home is continuing for Oracle?

I think they can ask whether to return to office but can't force to be back...

Share your thoughts :)

Hello All,

Currently working in Capgemini Engineering with yoe 1.8 (c developer)
Current ctc 4.62 lpa

Got selected in different company as devops Engineer.
Hr round is scheduled on Monday
What ctc should i demand??

Hi all, what salary range would be good for Head of Content (UX writing+ content strategy + direct reports) who reports to VP of Product at a series B, fully remote fintech company?
(MBA, 5+ years experience)

Hi guys. Like for dm please.

Damn. So much new found respect for Hannah Ann 🙌🏼

How much does “Queen Victoria” remind you of that person in the firm that will do ANYTHING to become partner?

How many are turned off by Peter’s behaviors?

Who do ya got winning it all?

Hannah Anne is the clear winner

Brendan is a fucking gaslighter and deserves to rot in bachelor hell…

Ok but I can’t be the only one that has been team Kelley and Peter from the start. The producers coerced Peter into going after 23 year olds and didn’t want a redo of Colton’s season...

I feel heartbroken with Katie being eliminated. She was the only one I liked 😩🤦🏽‍♀️

Someone explain to me what happened on the bachelor. Stopped watching but keep seeing confusing storylines of what happened. Madi said no, then he proposed to Hanna, then Hannah broke up with him?

Why is Maddie trying to prove her love so badly??? He’s not ready! He’s conflicted 😐

Well that’s the end of that! Madi & Peter broke up. I’m sure the rumors about him sleeping with Kelly & a producer + reaching out to Hannah B had something to do with it 🙄

Anyone listening to any Bachelor related podcasts? Anyone else annoyed with Kay from the Betchelor?

Victoria F.... how is this girl still around?

Anyone here use Bach bracket? I’m trying to get one going with some friends. Have you found a good way to remind people to make picks weekly (WhatsApp, group text, etc)?

I’ve listened to more country music because of this show

Now that we’re at an ad, kristina schulman is one of the most beautiful girls i’ve seen on network tv

Ok ok plot twist: he’ll propose to Madison and she’ll say NO! Cause she realized how different they truly are... then he goes after Hannah cause his mom told him she was an angel sent from above 😂 🤦🏻‍♀️

I wanted Mike Johnson to be the new bachelor... He is such a great guy! 😩
I have nothing against Matt James, but Mike proved us he was ready and a stand-up man.

Peter re: each one of his girls — “there’s just something about her. I’ve got a really good feeling”