At my uncles wedding in Madrid I remember lying down on the grass in the courtyard after their first dance and crying, my Dad came and saw me, laid down in his suit beside me and asked what was wrong.

“I know my boyfriend wouldn’t dance with me like that at our wedding”

And we just lay there as I cried, and then got up. Had a drink.

Said boyfriend left years ago, and now I have a wonderful man who just asked me what type of dance lessons I want for our wedding next year.

Don’t give up.

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Ok, but is dancing at the wedding THAT important? There's still 40+ years after that, maybe other qualities are required.

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I’m like just take the story as it is 🤷‍♀️ and move on haha, hope you find happiness.

Your dad seems awesome, you seem kind of bratty

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VP1, ok good for you

Omg, that story gave me the feels—not bc of your fiancé, bc I’m sure he’s great but bc of your dad 🥹

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Awe yeah- my Dad is my best friend! He’s been great with all my partners and low judgement. But he also knows when a guy just ain’t it.

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C1 that was rude. She doesn’t seem batty at all. Hush up!

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No, I’d probably go dump his ass and have a stiff drink. Prost 🥂

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