For those of us in AA, just a reminder to reach out to your sponsor today. They probably would enjoy hearing from you. :)

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Thank you for the reminder! Haven't checked in for a little while so it's a good idea. Anyone else feel like they have a hard time being the one to reach out to their sponsor? I'm pretty new to this whole thing but I've noticed it's hard for me to initiate conversations

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I’m not the best at it either. I most consistently call when my ass is falling off.

One thing that has helped me to reach out to alcoholics in general, is if a person pops into my head, I’ll reach out to them. 75% of the time they say something like, “I was just thinking about you”. It’s a little confirmation that the universe was giving me that initial nudge and I was right to act on it.

Thank you. I just did at your suggestion

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Thank you for this reminder OP. I just reached out to mine and you are right, she was really happy to hear from me.

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