Hi. So grateful for this bowl! I’m 16 months sober. Fairly new to ACN just curious what types of challenges you’ve faced and how you’ve overcome them?

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So glad you’re here! I think for me, the biggest challenge I was met with was handling my emotions and difficult situations sober. But, it can be done and I’m much happier now than ever before. Even being sober through hard times is far better than drinking through them!

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Congrats on 16 months! For me, now that I recognize alcohol as an addiction and disease, and since I know my thinking is broken, I have to be careful to not let myself view a drink as a grenade that will end my stress and misery from this job.

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