How do you deal with a sole practitioner lawyer on the other side of a corporate transaction who only wants to talk on the phone about revisions (not really adding substance to comments already in the doc), can’t take a hint to send them over when I’m unavailable so calls/texts multiple times when not receiving an immediate response, and emails on a Friday late afternoon that they will be drafting docs and to look out for them over the weekend?

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Take an initial call and then mention it’s often more efficient for them to send comments/changes in writing so the team can review in real time. Say if there’s something that comes up in the future that you’re happy to talk through it if there is confusion over the change.

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They get excited to be talking to someone in a big law firm. Flatter them but keep focus. Literally do compliment, and tell them what you want. compliment, tell them what you want. flatter them

This isn’t everyone solo or at a small firm but it’s a notable pattern. Sometimes they go the other way and act incredibly hostile.

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It be like that sometimes

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