How do you get over putting down an animal? It is so hard on me, every time.

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It hasn't really gotten any easier on me. But how I look at it is that the animal is no longer suffering. Kinda makes it a little easier.

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I just had one, and I like to remind myself and others that this is the last present we can offer them as a token of our gratitude for all the love they have shown us. That even though it hurts us, bringing them peace and removing their suffering is putting them first.

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Every person behaves and responds differently. You'll make a highly personal revelation about yourself as you learn how you respond during a euthanasia. Being human is the finest advise I can give you. Be sympathetic and supportive, however you can at that time.

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Through time, you develop the ability to manage your emotions to the point where you can perform the tasks necessary for your job. In my situation, it is important to be assured that the choice was the best one for the patient. That might affect you harder if you have doubts.

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Some circumstances will occasionally just get to you. There are simply harder days. Knowing that the animal is in pain and that you are trying to bring them some relief makes it easier, so to speak. Nonetheless, it's okay to cry and to take a moment to yourself before entering the next room.

In time, it becomes easier. You start to appreciate the relief you give to pet parents and their pets. Many owners simply want assurance that they are choosing correctly. If they are, I usually remind them of this moments before the euthanasia.

I work through it, respecting that my feelings is because I’m a human that feels: understands the human animal bond, that I’m a professional trained in this. I talk to myself .
I’m the best person to care during this time.
We’re doing the best with the options at the time.
The patient is no longer feeling pain or suffering.
Im doing my best.

It’s hard on you because you’re human, because you care. Feelings are valid. Work with your emotions. CAETA has some good resources on caring for the caregiver, and resources for creating a good death experience for those involved.

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