How to deal with misogyny in the workplace?

Context: happy hour, young woman, surrounded by men (typical in the industry, does not bother me as much).

At a happy hour, the host explains how he hired an “escort” (abroad) as he “did not want to take the effort for a woman to sleep with him.”
Obviously this is incel language, but what bothered me most is that the guys around me joked and laughed. Me: noticeably silent.

- Woman thankful to go into a six-fig career without selling her body.

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