I just turned 35 a couple months ago. My doctor said it’s up to me to do a FET or fresh transfer. With FET we would do the genetic (PGT) testing. I’m 50/50 on what to do. I know the PGT testing isn’t 100% accurate and couple potentially damage healthy embryos. And even a genetically normal, highly graded embryo could end in a miscarriage. Any suggestions or advice? I don’t know what to do. I’m starting stims soon so I’ll be having my egg retrieval is a couple weeks.

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Definitely FET. My first transfer was fresh and wasn’t successful… did FET moving forward, and have had a successful birth and am currently pregnant with my second. I just look at it as giving me the best chance of success.

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I am doing FET with PGT. The risk of damaging an embryo is small, and I wanted to give myself and a future baby the best chance of a healthy pregnancy. There are no guarantees, but at least with PGT I can improve my odds.

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Good luck! That is a tough decision. If PGT will give you peace of mind then it could be worth it. It does decrease the risk of miscarriage but nothing is a silver bullet.

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I have had 2 failed tested embryos - I don’t regret the testing but I do wish I had managed my expectations better (my doctor told me, but I didn’t hear it and thought they would all work)

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Here with you D1. My first round had two aneupeloid (sp?) embryos, and somehow that was the hardest part to hear. But I would not have wanted to go through two miscarriages to find out the same information, especially since I live in a state where abortion is outlawed, so doctors are very leery about treating women who are miscarrying until they are basically septic.

At age 35, def recommend pgt!

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Also, if you’re going to a good clinic, the chance of harming the embryo during testing is extremely minimal. If I’m remembering correctly, I think my Dr said at mid 30s the expectation is 60% of embryos tested are normal.

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We went with FET. My clinic strongly recommends PGT, and our first transfer of a PGT-tested embryo worked.

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Do the PGT, we didn’t do it and we are now wondering if the embryo transfer failed due to bad chromosomes.

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I had a successful fresh cycle which resulted in a miscarriage I am 37 and my doctor still doesn’t suggest I do PGTA testing bc it only tests few of hundreds of cells

I completely agree Associate 1.

I am 35, just did retrieval and the testing. I wanted to know how healthy and what gender embryos I had. I am happy with the results so I don’t feel the need to do another retrieval. I know what the odds are of it being successful.

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