I just got a really great offer, only downside is the eligibility for maternity leave is after 12 months of employment. We got a faint positive today but have had so many chemical pregnancies over the past year that I am not confident it will stick this time BUT I am on aspirin and progesterone for this try … so it could.. I want to see if I could negotiate being eligible earlier but I also don’t want them to think I’m pregnant when I’m not actually… How would you approach the conversation?

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I would try letting them know that you’ve been trying to get pregnant for a while but you’re also very interested in this job opportunity and see if they’re willing to be flexible in case you do get pregnant in the next couple of months. It’s a valid concern and they should be willing to be flexible

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