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It took me a year into fertility treatment to finally reach out to a mentor and let them know the situation. I was transparent with my team in letting them know I would need to adjust travel/meetings for “medical reasons”, but no other details. I will say, since telling my mentor, they have made sure projects work with my travel needs, so I wish I had mentioned it sooner. It was a little awkward, but I basically just came out and said I’ve been going through fertility treatment for the past year and there would be travel limitations. They didn’t make a big deal out of it or ask questions but said they had me covered.

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