I need some hope today, how long did you have to play the online dating game before you met your person? Feeling kinda defeated hahaha

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I got super lucky and met my husband after only about a month. He was on and off on the app for probably a year though before we met. You can find your person, but a lot of it is luck.

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I gave up after 3 years on the apps… and met my husband at a party

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I was on for 4 years on and off with an intense 6 month relationship in between! Your person is out there - on the app or outside but don’t loose hope.

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I was off and on the apps for a decade before finally meeting my guy out in the wild. Use them as a tool, but not your only tool for meeting your person ❤️

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I met my husband through someone I met on a dating app 🙈. Had been a couple of years on the apps though. Your person is out there!

I matched with my husband the first day! He had been on and off apps for a couple years beforehand.

If you don't mind me asking, how old were all of you when you met your partners on these apps?

29, couple of months away from 30! Met him after being on the apps for 2.5 months (had been in a relationship for a long time before that)

I met my husband a month in — bumble 🫣 I was 24 in 2020 , married at 28.5 and and am now 30!

It took me less than a month to meet my husband. I live in a small-ish city and do believe that fewer candidates made it so much easier to couple up. In other words, if we were both in a large metro we would probably see a bunch of other hot/interesting people on the apps and want to exhaust a few more options before committing to each other. I feel extremely lucky.

Get off the apps and go out into the real world. Become a regular somewhere

I was on and off the apps for 2 years before I met my partner. I was using Bumble initially but met him 3 months after I switched to Hinge. He said he had been on Bumble the entire time I was on it but we never saw each others’ profiles (maybe because we live 25mins away from each other and my distance was kinda limited initially).

Good luck! Hoping for the best for you.

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