I recently joined a new organization where my college friend happens to work. However, he joined a year ago. The initial one month was fine. But all of a sudden my friend started interacting less and even started avoiding me. He is friends with another guy in our office who has manipulated him since joining. My friend wants to break the friendship. He influenced others too and now a group makes fun of me. I find it hard to work and mentally stressed. How should I survive, as I love my job?

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Just concentrate on your job and skills. That's all you need. Start to give yourself good company by yourself. People who are meant to stay will stay and who aren't won't stay.
This is simple logic which if not now you will realise later

Focus on your skills and try to be there in the organization for more than a year.

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