I wrote a story I was really proud of... good sources, solid reporting, the whole thing. But my editor tore it apart when it ran. Said I got the angle wrong, questioned my sources, and even said I missed the real story. It got to me because I put so much into it. Now I'm wondering if I'm any good at this. How do you handle criticism that feels personal?

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Sometimes I treat tough edits like gym workouts. They’re uncomfortable, but they make you stronger. That said, it’s fair to step back and ask: was the criticism really about the work, or was the editor in a mood? It’s okay to question that, too.

I have had edits that felt like gut punches, especially when I cared deeply about the piece. What helps me is stepping back once the sting fades and asking, “What part of this actually helps me grow?” You can be good and still get torn apart

I have been there, and it cuts deep when you care. One edit does not define your worth or your skill.

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