If you’ve had a fight with your husband and don’t want to be the one to initiate contact, but your fertile window has just started, what do you usually do?

Do you still let him know about the timing or ask if you should try this cycle, or do you wait for him to reach out first even if the fertile days pass?

I am still hurt and feel he was in the wrong.

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Fertile window > fights. They can be resolved but next fertile window takes days to come!!

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I handled a similar situation via text message (because i didn’t really want to “speak” to him yet). Wrote out that I was still hurt by xyz and want to talk it through more, etc. but that it is the fertile window, that I knew this argument is something we will work through, and that I don’t want to miss the opportunity of the fertile window. He came and apologized and we got down to business. If the pregnancy is a similar priority for both of you, it will often outweigh whatever the fight it about.

However, if the fight was something very big or changed your view on him as a person and you need time to assess things, then take the time.

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