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I have taken 4 technical and 1 manager(final round) round in company A and currently awaiting their response.Company A entire process took 5 months.
In between I got an offer from company B and currently serving notice.
Can I inform Company A about serving notice period?
Can you help taking this decision.
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This isn’t a prom date, it’s a job; don’t be so focused on feelings. Tell the first employer the truth promptly and politely, it’s up to them how they react.
Look at it this way: if their business needs required it, they’d cut you loose without a second thought. You’re just doing the same thing.
It's unfortunate for the first job, but I think you have to take whatever job makes the most sense for you in your life! I think the best way to handle it is to tell the truth and let them know that you are grateful for the offer but have to go with another offer that came in at the last minute. They'll be annoyed but understanding, and hopefully one of their other candidates will still be available.
Congratulations on getting 2 offers, especially in this market!
I think the key is to act quickly and be polite. I’d probably write or call and thank them again for the opportunity, then explain that an unexpected offer that aligns more closely with your long-term goals came through. It’s uncomfortable, but better than staying in a role that doesn’t fit.
This is tough, especially when you want to be kind and professional. Are you sure you want to take the second offer? A friend once called the first company, thanked them genuinely, and just said she had to make a really hard choice for long-term alignment. They weren’t thrilled, but they understood. If you lead with appreciation and keep it short and sincere, you’re showing respect even as you walk away.
I don't think so. You just have to make peace with the fact that you're burning the bridge for the betterment of your career. It's awkward, but you have to do what's best for you and shouldn't feel badly about it.
I think calling the person who made the decision to put out an offer is a class act and any reasonable person would understand if you explain how it’s a better fit for you and your goals (I.e it’s not about the money at all). If they try to convince you otherwise or act spiteful/upset, that’s on them and if anything further proves you have made the right decision.