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This seems reasonable for a hcol area. If it makes you feel better, we are having half the people and paying nearly double the cost in another hcol location 🫠 pricing on everything has skyrocketed, so definitely don’t think you’re out of range
And I’m sure your wedding will be beautiful! 💕
I don’t think you’ll regret spending that much if you can afford it. It’s the only party you’ll have where everyone from all corners of your life will be there, it’s an amazing day! I wouldn’t go into debt for it, but it doesn’t sound like that’s you. Ignore the people that say to just elope and save money (they’re common on the internet)
Im estimating ~150k for Cabo for ~150 people.
For HCOL and number of people, that isn’t a ridiculous number to spend. Whether it fits into your budget and values is your own question.
Keep in mind you can definitely get guest lists down and save. Don’t give +1s unless serious relationships, make a “B list” and take a strong look at your guests. Unless someone else is paying for your wedding (doesn’t sound like they are) they don’t get to dictate who is invited
All that matters is that you feel ok spending the amount. I would never personally be comfortable spending that much on a single day, and you can definitely do it for less, but if you’re good with it go for it.
I am also in HCOL Bay Area and we have 150 guests. All in we’re getting close to 70K. We could comfortably spend more, but decided on including just the pieces that WE really cared about and have knocked off costs for things we don’t care about or care less about and ultimately feel like our total spend will be pretty reasonable. All the extra things we don’t want is money in our pockets for the honeymoon and our future.
I am fully certain my wedding would’ve been this much in New England. We pivoted to the Midwest and are at about half of that for same headcount, but a lot of pricing is location dependent.
It’s a lot of money, but that’s about what my other friends are spending as well. My first wedding 10 years ago was $110k, and we have had inflation since. I also read somewhere that the average cost of a wedding is now $80k, which also takes into account places like Mississippi.
I think I’m also trying to get a good sense for whether this budget is understandable given the HCOL area and high guest count.
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Is that really is your total budget, dress, tuxes, BM gifts, transportation, food/ bar, photographer,videographer, flowers, hair, makeup, venue, tips, tax, everything? For 220 guests thats around $660 per guest. I would say that's in line for a "big" wedding. I only had 114 attend and my cost was a tad higher. My venue could have accommodated more and the incremental cost of additional guest had they come was around $230. Since, so much was fixed cost, had I had a higher percentage attend it would have been in that range.
Do a really close look at your guest list. Who will really come? Of course, you need a venue that will accommodate the total number you invite, the preference is to be able to not be signing a contract for that number.
Happy planning!