Anyone else’s mom driving them crazy about mother of the bride dresses? Wedding is a little over a year out 😂 Any store recommendations for MOB dresses?

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My mom sent me a link for a bright pink dress and asked what I thought about as a mother of the bride dress for her. My wedding isn’t until late August. I feel for you OP 😂

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Forgot to mention that my mom had separately mentioned she thought her and bridal party and my future MIL should all wear matching colors…so hopefully she isn’t thinking I’m picking hot pink bridesmaid dresses

Same here so following 😂 good luck! I think my mom is looking at BHLDN and Bella Bridesmaids? idk she’s driving me crazy too!

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Oh - this was my family. It took both Moms longer than me to find their outfits lol. Also took them to so many stores (more than me for my wedding dress). Depending on the style, age, and venue I'd say department stores are a good starting point to have them narrow down style and color. Some bridal shops of mother/mature bridesmaid options so every wedding dress trial I made sure to take on a moms appointment as well so we could narrow it down.

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