I’ve been wanting to move to a new city, but everything with my job is good. I’ve gotten promoted twice in the last year, get paid well, good wlb, and pretty stable. I live in Orange County, and my dating life is kinda nonexistent since coming out about a year ago, and my friends are all getting married and in a different phase of life. I’d like to be a decent sized city, but not sure if the change is worth giving up what I got. Curious if anyones been in the same sitch and how things worked out

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