How is dating in Jax? Apps seem to suck. 26M here trying to date or just to make new friends

"I don't think there's ever been an appointment in my entire life where I wanted the other guy to show up." - Costanza

How many dates do you give someone if you don’t feel a “spark” in the first 1-2 dates but genuinely enjoy their company (I.e. talking and learning about them etc)?

Men in your 30s and 40s - what is the number one quality you're looking for in a woman? I like to think I'm compassionate, intelligent and independent (as much as any other woman), but I'm still struggling to find dates. I would say I'm attractive, and I take care of myself pretty well. What am I doing wrong?

I’m a single black woman. What are the best locations to find other single men?

I may just take myself to a bar, but what if no one approaches me

Why is the ROI in online dating so miserably low?

Met a great woman this weekend. We are going on a date at the end of the month. Both have crazy schedules end of this month and next . I can’t stop thinking about her :) happy pride 🏳️‍🌈 ❤️

What are some of the cringiest/funniest things you’ve seen on a dating profile?

F 39 I’m officially on search for a husband (shamelessly). What do you guys like in a lady, what kind of look grabs your attention? What do I need to wear?? My male friends tell me I need more revealing clothes! 😂

Curious what anyone thinks about cologne? Is it a turn on? I am not really into it.. but I just got a whiff of this dude at the gym and the cologne did something to me 🥰 It was really subtle. I tend to just like the way a man smells (not body odor but just natural scent) and don’t usually like it covered up, but wow this guy tonight 🥵 I might might buy some but i figured it would be gay to ask him “what are you wearing” because that prob isn’t something the bros at the gym do.

F Miami, 26 let’s talk 😉

I gained weight during my last relationship (probably around 30 lbs, and I’m 5’9”). Before my relationship, I felt like I could get any guy. But I’ve been single for 2 years now and it’s been so hard to date. I’m not sure if maybe I’ve lost confidence, but I legitimately don’t know how to get a guy to be interested. Any pointers?

Guys, When you match/accept requests/ start talking to a girl and go MIA is it becoz you have multiple options? Would the world be not better if you just said yes or no and close the convo instead of

Have been dating SO for over a year. Amazing person (thoughtful, kind, supportive) but couple blockers 1) I don’t know if I’m ready to settle down yet (30y/o) 2) We’re on different financial paths (have self made NW close to $1M vs $0); this puts constraints on trying to buy a place

I feel bad for feeling this way but wondering if these are valid blockers?

Which city would you recommend for single men in late 20s trying to find good opportunities in career & dating? Leaning more towards to NYC but not planning to live in Manhattan due to the high rent so I am not sure that would be okay. Also don't want to drive that much.

If a guy invites you to stay the night, does that means something?

I'm not sure what else I did other than being respectful and not giving flip at the same time but (4) mature ladies in my office flirt with me every chance they get. Some of my M colleagues are beginning to notice and giving the prod. I must confess it comes with some perks as I do appreciate how fast they process my requests/orders which a M colleague literally told me is biased. Recently one of them offered to bring me her cooked food and asked that I do the same..(Cont'd)

Any Punjabi guys here? 26F, west coast

Moving to Boston from NYC and work in Cambridge. I’ve been recommended Back Bay, South End, and Seaport. Where do you recommend? Where is best for dating life?

Hey fishes,
Are certifications important for hikes while switching companies?

Has anyone moved from FDD to Strategy? I have an offer for FDD but long term goal is to break into strategy. Don’t want to have to get an MBA unless it’s firm sponsored…and FDD is easier to get in compared to Strategy

I have learned that several Housekeeping employees in the hospital have died from Coronavirus, and I'm ashamed to say, that I didn't even notice their absence

Hi fishes,

Got an offer from Netcracker Technology Corp. Bangalore location.
How about WLB and job security..?
Can I prefer this offer..?

Higher base salary or sign on bonus? Which would you prefer and why?

Hi Fishes,

I have shorlisted below offers, Please suggest which one to join.

Capco - 24 Fix Plus 1.5 JB
Mercer - 25.3 ctc (23 fix)
Exl - 22.3 ctc (20 fix) plus 1.5 JB

Yoe - 7.3 years
tech stack - Data Scientist

Note - Mercer hr is saying first say no to exl in a mail then i will release offer letter.

PwC S3 in FS audit NYC, up for promo this year. What’s the M1 and M2 base range? M1 more specifically. Thanks!

Now that I got promoted to manager, I’m kind of missing the camaraderie that came along with being out on the floor with everyone else. Is that normal?

Anyone else out of a job and having trouble finding a new one? L/S HF job kicked me out because of performance

If I'm going through the process with a VC fund and decide I don't want to do VC now (but want to leave the door open in the future), what's the best way to drop out of the process? Don't want to waste their time but want to keep the door open as well

What metrics do you think are most important to measure for success of a Plaintiff’s firm? Obviously revenue, but what else is at the top of the list for you?

Just raised my first snapshot.
We can't see the review?

I know the pay at Jackson Lewis is subpar, but is anyone at JL and happy there? I understand this is also probably office specific but am curious about culture and vibe.

Can someone explain what is the diff bw Assurance and Consulting?

What is the salary for a senior strategist in NY?

Which platform do you find best for affiliate marketing?

What steps should I take to become a marketing manager in 4 years? I'm currently a coordinator but I'm very goal-oriented. Determined to achieve this!

Is anyone going to Jax river jams?

Who do you think the jags will pick first in the draft this week?

Looking to change jobs in accounting, have an offer from Macquarie which supposedly has a decent sized office here (300+ people?). Anyone have any insights into culture?

Things to do in town for Christmas? I'll start in the comments!

Fave thing to do around town?

What does everyone here make?

I'll go first. Accounting, 3 YOE & CPA, 75k in industry

Hey! About to move to Jacksonville and I'm not going to have time to really vet a lot of apartments before I get there. Is there a good area to live in or even buildings you can recommend?

If only this bowl was made months ago:/ about to move out of Jax.