How is dating in Jax? Apps seem to suck. 26M here trying to date or just to make new friends

Men - do you try to get out of an argument/fight by pretending like nothing happened? Why so?

In my opinion one of the worse things you could hear from someone when you are dating is ‘I usually don’t talk to someone like you’. It makes it seem like you are just settling for that person.

How do you deal with your boyfriend still being friends with someone he slept with before? Kind of bothers me but not sure if it’s normal....

Anyone else’s love life so DRY that you find yourself having a crush on an older man at work who is in senior leadership? I keep it professional, but I feel like I’m doing something so bad by having this crush.

My partner refuses to flatulate during waking hours around me. I feel this lack of intimacy is cause for alarm. I calmly mentioned my concerns and she doesn't feel comfortable speaking about the subject. Any suggestions?

Question that could belong here or in the Relationships bowl:

How do women prefer to be turned down if the guy they’re pursuing is not interested. I know men have the capacity to deal with rejection poorly, and I’m not suggesting otherwise. But in my anecdotal experience , women take the gentle “no thanks, not interested” poorly.

I recently asked everyone’s age filters on dating apps and there were some mentions of fear of baggage and that’s why you don’t date older than X. What baggage are you afraid of? Ex spouses? Kids from prior relationships? What is it?

39M in West LA, looking to meet someone for drinks and see where things go! (Never married, no kids)

Have a crush on my co-worker. He asked me out to go rock climbing one-on-one after we were texting for a while and I acted awkwardly when we went because I didn’t know if it was a date (nothing was explicitly said). Now I’m stuck in this weird limbo state where things have fizzled out but I’m re-reading texts and think he might’ve actually had a crush too and I pushed him away. Ambiguity sucks.

Hi all, when do y’all think is a good time to have the “what are we”/“are we exclusive” talk? After how many dates?

For those of you in your mid-20’s, how often do you go on dates with your significant other? In a serious relationship for the first time since college and trying to gauge what folks consider normal for dating frequency (excluding nights in). Context - we’re 25, dating for 3 months, live 5 mins away from each other, decent WLB

I got reprimanded by a man for having an uninspired point of view of a conference call. He then gave me his inspired POV...which was exactly the same. When I pointed that out he said, “huh. Maybe.”

Men of FB, how did you girlfriends / wives sex drive change with age?

Unpopular opinion:
Don't understand what people are loving about Indian Matchmaking
I do not find it hilarious and do not find Nadia adorable 🙄

Do men actually like feisty women? Or do you like a more submissive woman? Curious

Any female fish want to grab a drink this weekend?

Is it just me or other people have also seen people hooking around near cricket ground in Infosys Pune campus.
In the afternoon and night shifts obviously..

Seriously don't know how to get a boyfriend as an IB analyst, most people who are in a relationship started dating since college. Really don't want to be single when I'm 30•••

Can anyone share what's the minimum and max package one can expect in Band 8 in Kyndryl. Its little urgent so a quick response would be appreciated.

Are the exit opportunities better in Internal Audit/Business Process than IT Audit? All I hear is how awful IT Audit is but don’t hear as much complaining from the business side

I’m a pharmacist and currently doing an MBA. I have only 2 YOE as a pharmacist and I’m trying to find a career path that will suit me. I completely regret choosing pharmacy and I want to reorient myself. Any advices as where to start applying? ( FYI I particularly enjoyed finance during the master)

Turning 28 and hit $300K NW today. Never formally FIRE’d but want to set out a plan for here onwards. What’s some good material / easy reading to start with?

Is MBB hiring right now ?

Does anyone want a ticket to the Mets/Phillies game

Hello Fishes,
Hope everyone is doing well!

I'm currently looking for a job change, having a total experience of 10 years in Motion Graphics, 2D Animation, Video Editing & Graphic Design. I'm working as an Assistant Design Managar at my current organization.

Can anyone help me guide about the roles at Gartner which suits my profile. Also it will be a great help if you can refer me too.

What should be the ideal package for a SAP ABAP consultant experience of 5 years?

Opinion: Giving legitimacy to conspiracy theorists by providing them with a platform is incredibly irresponsible and selfish.

What is Bain & Company comp at Consultant (post-MBA) rank?

I'm holding an offer from MakeMyTrip and another offer from OlaElectric. Ninjacart is willing to make me an offer. But they're saying that they'd discuss the offer only after the other company that I'm interviewing with has come up with an offer first. There's been a delay from HRs of the companies in a similar way. How do I urge them to send me the offer letter without sounding pushy? I had reached out to some of the HRs myself. Would that be too awkward if I accept & back out their offer?

Hi everyone

Is there any disadvantage if I get relieve on Friday compared to on Monday?

What I am thinking is I will be loss pay for sat and Sunday?

Actually my last is 27th
I asked for a week early relieving so thinking about this.

Thanks.

Someone please explain all these groups at Accenture. What service lines have the weird Associate Manager title? Is that CDO? What's the difference between business and systems integration vs CDO?

Best consulting firms to work for in Hartford CT area?

Have any PDMs gone to DU? I know it’s not standard, but have any exceptions been made?

What is the procedure to follow to prevent ourselves from getting blacklisted after rejecting an offer letter?

Since we’ve all been working from home for months now, what’s the best office chair out that y’all are using for our long work from home hours? Looking to invest in a better one than my ~$150 one from Amazon.

Difference in working in house for an insurance company vs for a firm?

Looking to change jobs in accounting, have an offer from Macquarie which supposedly has a decent sized office here (300+ people?). Anyone have any insights into culture?

Who do you think the jags will pick first in the draft this week?

If only this bowl was made months ago:/ about to move out of Jax.

What does everyone here make?

I'll go first. Accounting, 3 YOE & CPA, 75k in industry

Things to do in town for Christmas? I'll start in the comments!

Hey! About to move to Jacksonville and I'm not going to have time to really vet a lot of apartments before I get there. Is there a good area to live in or even buildings you can recommend?