Looking for support group. Is anyone interested in starting a LinkedIn/other support group? I moved to a new city, and started a job at a tech startup. It has been so overwhelming, not necessarily due to work, but co-workers that I absolutely cannot relate to because I am not rich and did not go to Ivy League Law schools. Everyone gets along just so naturally and bond over luxury cars and gifts from their families for down payment for houses and I feel so lost and out of place.

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And lonely and isolated. To add to it, I have bit of social anxiety and am naturally very introverted. I hit the fucking lottery

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I would love that even if it’s just a place to vent. Yesterday, I had to listen to a partner talk about how his family had to work really really hard to get where they got and all they had was 200k (each) when their grandparent passed away . 🙄 people seriously undervalue how much privilege comes from generational wealth and generational knowledge. Or how unrelatable/unattainable certain things or experiences are for people

Went to school at a top law school, and it was all like that. I could vent for hours on this.

Eventually know you’ll find common ground with them, whether that’s a hobby, gym, or the obnoxious employee that everyone else can’t stand. Time itself will create opportunities to relate to these people on a human level that, hopefully, goes beyond the material

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“Only” 200k. lol. Wow.

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