I’m a woman of color and my legal assistant is a white man…this feels…good?

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I love this post with every fiber of my being

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My grandfather got a white maid after living through the jim crow era it made him really happy lol

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Remember that scene from Forrest Gump where Bubba’s mother has a white maid? 🤣 With that said, the humor is in the irony not racism or disparagement of anyone undertaking honest, hard work.

As a minority across a few different categories, this post honestly rubs me the wrong way.

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OP lol same

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At one point I had 2 white men as paralegals and 1 as a law clerk! 2 of them were older than me as well. Made for some interesting dynamics

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I am happy for you that you had this experience.

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Love that for you.

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