Men - have you had women yell at you just for making a move/approaching them? I’ve had 2 of my male friends say this and I’m curious to hear if this is commonplace these days 🤨

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Never. Don’t be a creep about it (e.g. sexual) and don’t do it in a time / area that would make them feel unsafe (e.g. alone on a sidewalk at night). Use happy, kind tone. Give your compliment. Keep it moving.

Best case they call after you or keep conversation going. Worst case (if done right) you brighten their day a bit.

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I’m a woman and I’ve done it when someone is much older than me or their vibes are creepy and they don’t take the first ‘no.’ I would ask these two guys for more details, because something tells me they did something to deserve to be yelled at

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Vibes are creepy AND they don’t take the no / OR they don’t take the no?

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Rules 1 and 2

I don’t yell, I’d rather stay quiet

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