My gaydar has been so off lately! And to add to my problem, I keep getting hit on by women because I'm one of the queers who don't exactly have the most stereotypical gay traits or appearances (re: I'm a pretty handsome man, and I'd rather have other men acknowledge that than women). How do we get me out of this dry spell?

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Isn’t gaydar an ability to to know if other people are gay? It’s not about whether other people think you’re gay.

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I love hearing some one tell what some one elas is heard so much bs on all types radar 🤣 and judge wrongfully also those times pee me off . Don't worry about your gayder it's not real 😓and it's insult assuming whatever on someone and I'm sorry but you just explained how you dress ect that is how straight guys do now so you will get lots of ladies but make sure you get their guys numbers for you 😉 and if any of what I have type afend you I apologize it's seems we are acting like the past not the future 🙂
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Safe paths all 🙂

Show us pics to prove you’re handsome

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Maybe tou should just tell the women that hit on you that you are gay. And be more assertive flirting with men, with longer than usual eye to eye contact, etc. Only psychopaths will pursue another man that did not give any hint of interest, so watch your body language if you are around guys that interest you.

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I am NOT a psychopath!

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Perhaps go to a gay bar or a more queer part of the city and that should help

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This may be wishful thinking than reality? No one stereotypes gays to not be handsome men.

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@OP - Where do you live? Age?

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How old are you? Have you been out for a while?

Well you can have a drink with me in Toronto’s gay district and sing a drag song !!!

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