My recommender asked me to draft the letter myself. I get that it’s common, but now I’m stuck between writing something modest and something impressive. Like… do I humblebrag in the third person? How are you all handling this?

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Do NOT write your own recommendation. Admissions committees us software to detect this.

A few thoughts:
- find another recommender? Clearly the individual who committed to doing it doesn't have YOUR best interests in mind if they want you to write your own recommendation.
- ask a colleague to ghost write it for the recommender who asked you to draft it?

Do they really have software for this? Or is that a myth?

It’s a lie. D1 is probably a bot.

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