Need serious advice, I’m an autistic guy, almost 30, the idea of sex is scary to me. I think mainly because social skills and reading people is hard for me. Someone recommended is see a sex surrogate. What do people think about that?

https://www.webmd.com/sex/what-is-sexual-surrogacy

I have an offer to do some consulting for a company based out of the UK (I am in the US). The job would not go through a consulting company but would be directly with the company. I have not done any consulting before so I am not sure how it works, what I would need to set up (they mentioned that I would start a LLC and bill them directly, no idea how to do that), how to determine the tax implications of this, or what hourly rate I would expect. Can anyone offer advice?

Guys...could you please advise on 2 things below
Company INFOSYS JL6 lead/principal consultant?
1. Yearly hike on average rating
2. Variable payout on average rating

How is WLB in Tiger Analytics?
Do they allow project movement , If we don't like the kind of work we get in project?

How many years into your career did you start to feel jaded about the industry? I only have 4 years under my belt and still believe it’s fun and challenging, but I see so much negativity on here.

I work for a small agency and manage our internal marketing acct. We had very few processes in place when I started. I’ve since created, implemented, and trained our dept. on project mgmt for clients and am trying to convince the owner to apply those principles to our internal jobs. They are resistant because they just want the work to be done and don’t “want to keep spending money on internal jobs”. I’m confused because we’re doing the work either way and “spending” in labor/resources.

What are the best collaboration platforms?

What’s the minimum total comp I should get if asked to move to SF or NY from a LCOL city? I have 2 yoe

Hi Fisher,
Please help in suggesting which is the best offer to choose and which company is best in terms of

1) Career wise
2)WLB
3) Appraisal
YOE - 4.7 years as Oracle Scm cloud functional consultant current ctc 12.7 L

Deloitte - 16 Fixed + 10% Variable + 2L
joining B
IBM -16.7 Fixed + 15% variable + 1.6L JB
Inspirage - 18 Fixed + 1L JB
Deloitte @IBM @Inspirage

Hello fishes,

Sap basis is better for future or should I move to web development??

Pls share your views.

I have total experience of 3 years in sap Basis and I'm currently at 10.5 LPA.

Switching to web development is good decision???

What are salary rates for an Art Director in NYC these days? $90k $80k?

Is there a good place to get resume basics from? I haven’t written an external resume in 8 years. I’m homegrown with no non-consulting experience

Happy Thanksgiving, everyone! Hope you eat delicious food, and maybe get some exercise in.

I use SoFi to consolidate and pay off my mostly private student loans. I’m gonna call to confirm later, but what happens if I’m 2 weeks late on making a payment?

24 yr old, 110k TC, maxing out Roth IRA and Roth 401k, no debt or large expenses. Also have ~35k sitting in a bank account. What should I do with that money?? Am I better just sitting on it for a while then watching it shrivel up in my brokerage account?

I have received offer of 18l ctc+ retirals. What would be the in hand salary? Please help

Big 4 vs International Law firms - discuss….

Forget Secret Santa presents and gifts for your SO, the real question is what are you getting for yourself for Christmas?

Any guys in LA?

35M. Friend zoned after one date. What am I doing wrong? I met her at a baby shower. We talked/text regular for about a month or so because I was traveling for work. Finally went on a date about two weeks ago, a week after I told her I like her and said she never thought about us being romantic. Today I got the official friend zoned text.

30M based in nyc. Any F ready for casual dating? Happy to DM if interested.

Ladies would you take dinner and shoes from me?

Where them 30+ ladies at? 25M 🙋‍♂️😉

Early 30s, Female, Texas. Indian Ethnicity. HMU!

Anyone ready for NYC gathering?

Anyone here 40s never married, no kids?

It’s official that after 7 years I am now single in my late 30s…. Moments of excitement and moments sadness come and go. 🥂

Is this an active bowl..Or have the 30s fishes turned 40s already?

Any houston folks here?

Anyone in SF/ San Jose? f25

Any M 40+ in Nairobi? The apps here are not it!

How do I politely decline that I’m not okay to make out in the first date or when the guy calls me over to his place after we meet/eat/drink? I want to take things slowly & know the person before getting physical. Not everyone might like this but that’s what I am & this whole thing appears off-putting.

I am feeling naughty since morning! Anyone sharing the feeling?

I’m a Pro now, baby!

Where do professionals 30+ meet people these days besides dating apps?!

What are we up to this weekend single fishes!?