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In an arranged marriage setup, How difficult would it be to live life with a girl who has spent her entire life in a village and graduated in arts with vernacular medium from a tier-3 town. My parents are pressuring me to marry such a girl citing that they can't find more educated girls in our community. All the 10-15 rishtas I have got have the same pattern.

Should I even listen to them now? I have always worked hard and working in a good job now. Please suggest what to do?

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Won’t be difficult unless you both accept each other, buddy. Education is secondary, Behaviour and moral values comes first.

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his plan :

You and your family won’t have problem with taking unreasonable dahej, car and gifts from girl’s family , expect them to pay for all wedding events, give gifts to your extended family and guests even if they are skinned alive financially 👏🏻👏🏻

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Figure out a common interest that can bring you together. Something has to spark conversations between you two, every day. It could be politics, sports, work, gossip about someone else. Anything. Generally if it's a good common interest then it's better.

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Next time also notice how her mother behaves and what’s the chemistry between her mother and father. When we cross 35, we exactly behaves same like our parents I don’t know why.

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If she knows cooking and house chores your life will be heaven , don't worry about education

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Company not paying enough for a maid I guess

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Speak to her, try and find her interests. See how much they match. Location and language should not matter. Unlike everyone here I would say you are NOT marrying a maid. So whether she can massage your feet or cook awesome meals should be a secondary concern. Life partner means having someone at your mental level, who can give you mental peace. Else just marry anyone, it does not even matter.

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I can’t tell you what to do, but I’ll just say if you actually end up getting married to her, please don’t be embarrassed/ashamed of her! Don’t make her feel inferior just because she has a different background.
And don’t marry her because she will cook and clean, she actually might just do it but don’t expect it out of her!
All the best.

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You can comfortably marry such girl , if she cooks well, not lazy, not very ambitious, take care of you and respects your family , bro you are all sorted and can focus more on work and earn money and mental peace.

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Dahej aur alimony kaha se bich me aa gaya yaha pe , he is simply asking personal doubt.

goforLoveMarriage
AltogethermarriageisTRAPonly.
butArrangeonesareBIGBIGno.IYKYK

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It wale ladkiyo k chaakr koi saaf nhi bchi bhai gaon ki pkd shi rehga jeevan

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Village girls always try to understand unlike it girls they are not loyal mostly.

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As per my own experience if you like each other than arranged marriages are far better than love marriages

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Anonymous?

Don't marry.

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To be alive don't marry itself. Blue drums are famous nowadays.

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Don't judge a book by its cover. Village girls are quite smart and language is a medium to express yourself. Meet her, talk to her. If you feel comfortable talking to her, have some common interests, and feel respect for each other, rest will follow. I'm sure, you both can learn something from each other.

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If you are not interested in doing house chores work , don't marry working women at all

You and your family won’t have problem with taking unreasonable dahej, car and gifts from girl’s family , expect them to pay for all wedding events, give gifts to your extended family and guests even if they are skinned alive financially 👏🏻👏🏻

thoughts if you finds her interesting then u should go if not think twice it's life long decision where you'll be happy or just accepting others for their morals ok be precise let parents speak not control you

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