So here something I never thought I would run into. Two of my siblings will likely cut each other for the foreseeable future. And it's possible either one cuts me off for associating with anyone from the other family, nieces and nephews included, because it could be considered taking their side. Neither will show up to family functions if anyone from the other family is there. And frankly I don't know who to believe.

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Getting them to reconcile isn't an option. Do I just let them cut me off if I associate with one or the other?

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I have the same problem and told them I am Switzerland. Your problems are not my problems and don't you dare impress your issues upon me. I have no issues with either of you and I intend to keep it that way. Do not drag me into your drama. I had one side that I wanted to take but ultimately I could not assist in fixing their issues without either of them hating me as well. I also said anyone willing to be the adult can solve the issues and put the damily back together (not always the best statement to put out there - depends on your family member ego and ability to rise above the nonsense). Good luck and do not wedge yourself between them it will cost you a relationship too.

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