So one of the juniors that I have worked with and thought I had got on well with is invited to my wedding evening (along with all the other people from work I spend time with socially). I just found out from someone else that basically every other junior is invited to theirs in a weekend for a social event and I am the only person that has not been invited…

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What is the question?

Someone she thought she was “friends” with, whom she invited to her wedding, didn’t invite her to a party but invited everyone else. So I’m guessing the question is whether to retaliate and disinvite her from the wedding.

My answer would be “No”. Don’t speculate on why you weren’t invited, there could be a totally innocent reason.

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