Started a new job in a boutique firm. It’s a very relaxed firm doing fun work with wlb. I got hired after getting the boot from a big law firm as a junior. I still dress up in suits and business formal while my colleagues wear casual, but I think that has attracted some side eyes from the management? One partner made a comment about how like me, a guy who used to work here dressed ultra formal all the time, was insufferable, and now he is at a big law. Is this a sign??? Should I wear hoodies?!!

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Why would you voluntarily wear a suit

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Be smart enough to hear the message your colleague is trying to give you and blend in.

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You should assimilate to the culture there.

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When in Rome…

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Where what you want but if everyone is casual at least try business casual. Save yourself the dry cleaning.

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Wear*. Yikes

I think it’s that the personality type that would not try to assimilate to the culture at their office and instead prefers to stand out is generally a red flag to everyone. We have an associate that wears suits and he’s insufferable. You don’t need to wear hoodies but you can dress business casual - just don’t wear a suit jacket and tie? Or switch out your shirt for a polo some days! It’s so simple?

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Even when I was in BL I felt weird about the people who came in in formal suits when they weren’t going to court. And yes, the only person I ever saw wearing a hoodie around the office was a share partner lol.

Come on. If you’ve been in BL you know that most people don’t actually dress that fancy. You don’t have to try to make a point with your dress

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Aw, you remind me of the guy who used to wear full suits to my liberal arts college classes! Others were in flip flops and Pokemon t-shirts. He was known to all as the Jackass. Yes, he was a poli sci major.

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I believe if you like to wear a suit, wear it. Dress for success and make sure your work product matches.

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Can you share more about this fun work?!

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I hear you on this. I’m torn between making the effort to blend in or not. I always felt that some of my coworkers didn’t like seeing me dressed up or going the extra mile with my work because they didn’t want me to set a higher standard for them. I could be wrong.

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You dress for the position you want. Be a leader bruv

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Hahaha that happened to me too I was so out of place at my first boutique coming from big law. But now I am at a boutique founded by a senior partner who spent his entire career in big law and everyone comes to the office in a suit even on a Friday so I can dress up again 😂

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I wear a shirt and jacket daily, and a tie on court days.

I hear you on this. I’m torn between making the effort to blend in or not. I always felt that some of my coworkers didn’t like seeing me dressed up or going the extra mile with my work because they didn’t want me to set a higher standard for them. I could be wrong.

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