Two colleagues at work were chatting, and I heard the sentence "lucky are those who love their jobs" in the mix. As I spend this Sunday evening, fully dreading going into work tomorrow, I really feel the depth of that sentence. How many of you are happy, or just at peace, with the fact that you have to go to work tomorrow? Feels very childish of me because this is exactly how I felt as a kid, crying about school on Monday every Sunday evening. How do you feel about this?

like
Posting as :
works at
You are currently posting as works at

I’m happy - not with all parts all day - but most things most days.

like

I am fairly happy. I have a good team, I am compensated fairly, etc. I also have found that when I have more fun on the weekends (but within balance—meaning no alcohol, poor food choices, etc), I am my better self and find the joy in all I do!

like

I really like my job , been there a year and enjoy working with my team. Feeling very fortunate at this point in my life.

like

I am happy that I have a livelihood. A job is a means to live my life and is not my purpose in life. Change reality by changing your mindset.

like

I love my paycheck and WLB - I don't need to love my job. I need to be good at it and shut it off at the end of the day. No more Sunday Scaries for me 😊

likeuplifting

Tbh, I spent a lot of years like this until I realized that I actually need and work better with some routine in life. And a job forces routine into my life, which is currently only the part I embrace about it, apart from the fact that it pays my bills.

likehelpful

It’s been a loooooooong time since the Sunday scariest have been real for me - I came to the realization that I can own my own happiness/job satisfaction. I cannot go back to yesterday, so thinking about how much easier/less stressful things were before doesn’t help me too much. I am in the midst of a perfect storm of strategic planning, operational execution, and changing leadership which is causing a tornado of sh1t to take care of - so I just spent 45 minutes of my Sunday evening prioritizing my to-do list for this week (kids are in bed, spouse is doing the same) to make sure I can hit Monday as close to running as possible.

likesmart

Nailed it, responding to emails and doing actual work on Sunday is a fast track to depression, but just reviewing the last week and creating a todo list for the week ahead is easy and helps you feel organized! It actually feels rewarding.

like

For me, it's about balance across different aspects of a job - WLB, remote vs. in-person, type of work, team dynamics and values, size and mission of company, salary, growth potential, etc. I am in a job now where I'm 100% remote, well compensated and like my boss and immediate team. There are aggravations, conflict and stresses outside my department but I try to keep them in perspective and focus on the pros. From the ups and downs of my career, I have learned that I am in control over how happy I am in a job, within reason (if a job disappoints on most or all your important dimensions, you should have strategy for moving on). It is also scary NOT to have anywhere to go on Monday and be job searching - especially in this market.

like

The Sunday Scaries are well known and broadly felt. Mine vary by week, tasks ahead and overall mental health. For me there’s two things that help ‘it’s work that why they pay you’ which I appreciate is a touch bleak and ‘this too shall pass’ . Neither of those might help but know your not alone. It’s part of the human condition.

like

Cursed with being good at my job and dreading going in every day. If it wasn’t a slow insidious decline over the years into more stress, more hours, less resources and support, less benefits and compensation increases (making life outside of work harder), there might be some level of satisfaction.

like

It varies week to week but in general I like my position. It mostly depends on the Friday ended and knowing if it’s just going to a continuation of Friday except on a Monday.

like

I am to the point where retirement is more near-term than far and, while I enjoy my work, I look forward to having multiple consecutive days without alarms going off to start my day. (And yes, I’m a teacher, but I opt to work also through the summer. It’s been many,many years since I actually had two weeks off in the summer.)

like

One of the really great things about having a job is that for most people, despite the billions of them out there, you only need one. If you dread your job you are free to find another. Sometimes just window shopping, the act of looking, can make you feel better, validating this simple truth.

I really like my job. I have a good team and there are no carpy people up the chain. I'm a top performer and I feel recognized. Having said that, my resume is up to date and I always have feelers out for a better opportunity. Things will always get better or worse, and being prepared is the only defense.

like

Yes! Keeping things up to date and networking even if you don’t intend on leaving is helpful! Realizing your worth is not only tied to your existing job can help you work more freely.

like

I used to feel like this. I would cry in my car on the way to work and absolute bawl in the parking lot before I went in. This place laid me off and it was a long time before I got another job.

Today, I work somewhere else. While there are some things I don’t like here, I don’t feel like I did when I would cry my makeup off in the furthest parking space from the building at 7:30 a.m. every morning.

like

I generally really enjoy my job. There are short periods of time where I don’t, but the majority of the time I look forward to going in to work. I love my team, I enjoy the partners I work with, and I feel like I’m moving things in a positive direction.

Been there. Used to get the Sunday Scaries. There is better. Took me a bit to find it, but I’m glad I realized how unhappy I was. We spend so much time at work. It’s one thing to not love your job. To collect a paycheck waiting for something better. But if you’re dreading it, that’s a sign it’s time to prioritize finding a job you do love. My life is much better for having made that change. Don’t stay longer than you have to.

For me, thinking that I need to be ‹lucky› to have a job that I love or thinking that having a job I love is something that´s not in my control, feels heavy. I prefer to think that "I love my job" is something that´s fully within my control to create.
If I dont love my job or any other part of my life, I look into what´s within my control that I can do about it. That feels so much more powerful to me :)

My role has truly evolved into being a highly paid dogsbody. I would love to be back working on projects that I can manage, and I am respected as having that experience.

You may think that's easy, but I now have serious health conditions, and I am likely to struggle to get anything else as I am at my ceiling. I tried to reduce my hours to manage my health. That was ignored. I have had a lot to deal with health wise and zero empathy from my global team. It feels very isolating when you are fully remote. I know their are pro's/con's, but I have been brought on for a job that I am not being allowed to do. So frustrating.

That sounds terrible, goes without saying best to look for other opportunities but easier said than done. Is the overworked feeling felt across the whole company or is it specific to your role? Wondering if there’s a company-wide initiative that can be started.

I feel like what I’m doing is valuable which is rewarding but I wouldn’t say I like it. I do try to find as much joy as I can with the money I make though which keeps it motivating. I believe people who like their job are the minority but it doesn’t mean you need to dread it.

As the saying goes, if you love what you do you’ll never work a day in your life. Facts.

Related Posts

Has anyone out there worked for a cruise line before? what was it like?

like

Does anyone know about the component "Monthly Advance performance bonus"?
If I resign before 1 year, Do they deduct it from fnf?

like
like

How much they pay for 2.8 yr Java developer?

I used to work at Edelman, and would like to pursue my career in ESG or corporate sustainability communications. Any recommendations (both in-house or agencies) in the UK?

#PR #Communications #help

like

How much do bcom grads earn for associate 1 level? In AC, Advisory? (Salary range)

like

Redeemed my recognition points for a portable air conditioner. Hope it's effective!

like

Hey how to get pluralsight access?

Hi folks,

Birlasoft is currently on hybrid mode or complete work from home?
Is there any news when birlasoft will be asking employees to come office? Birlasoft pune.
I am about to join birlasoft in next week. Kindly help me with this information. Birlasoft

How long does it take to adjudicate a closer investigation for secret clearance?

like

Dear Aspiring Product Managers,

Let's connect at 9PM (IST) today, will understand more about PDLC and success metric.

We will have QnA. Please DM me to get google Meet link.

See u only aspiring product managers today..

like

Ok, my favorite singer comes THIS WEEK for an interview ❗❗❗
I'm excited about the opportunity of proving my capabilities, but I also don't want to miss the chance of getting a picture or maybe an autograph.
Is it ok if I ask for it? Or is it too invasive?

like

After 3 years of freelancing, I just landed my first in-house journalist job!! I’m so happy!

like
like

Any insight in relation to M&A at White & Case LLP in London?

like

Anyone here who has relocated to Goldman Sachs in SLC can help me in answering some questions related to their relocation allowance? Thanks,

like

Does anyone from the northeast regret moving to Miami? I’m from NYC. Mid 30’s, single. Don’t know anyone in Florida except for 1 friend in Orlando. Trying to get a gauge of how things are down there before I move.

like

Tata Consultancy I got the pune location in my offer letter......is it possible it can be changed to TCS indore.....I have asked HR but he say Indore is not available.


please advise!!!

like

How did you get started with your personal investing in stocks? I am 26, F, have some money in savings, 401k, stocks and just started my own business albeit small. I’m extremely interested in real estate investing have been reading and listening to podcasts. Any advice?

like

You just finished teaching a skill / topic in your lesson. Children are now off to work on that skill independently: who are you targeting first to support, your students in the red or your students in the yellow?

Additional Posts in #OverheardAtWork

I give the clients gold, but they decide instead, they want me to paint it with sh*t.

likefunny

Alright, Fishbowl - whats the juiciest gossip you heard this week at work?

likefunnyuplifting

AE: I need to take off this afternoon to the attend my grandmother’s funeral.
Owner: Why? She’ll be dead tomorrow too.

likefunny

Can anyone send me invites/codes to the EY and KPMG bowls?

like

You know who gets that raise or bonus or even a promotion? It's not the hard worker. Not even the smart worker. It's the worker who advertises every task they did (small or big) in front of the whole team...

likefunnysmart

I'll stick around for the bonus but want to make my side hustle my main career next year.
The side hustle is Scentsy...

funnylike

“We had complimenting genitalia.”

likefunny

I made a couple errors at a new job. An important document to be distributed had wrong information on it, which was proofread by 2 other people. Then a couple of typos in emails, the person micromanaging me told me to send out but I didn’t fix the errors. Failed to meet a deadline but completed 95%. I was written up over all this last week, fired this week. There’s a lot more to this but I think it’s because the DM doesn’t like me.

like

“If I have COVID, I won’t tell anyone” why oh why? 🤔😫

like

“I get such a rush when I’m eating a taco."

likefunny

How you came into the company will define your path. That’s why you’ll never be successful switching departments.

likefunny

“Chatroulette, but for apartment peepholes."

likefunny

“The copy needs more modern slang young millennials can relate to. It isn’t jiggy enough right now."

likefunnyuplifting

“I just want to see her cry” — People! Wtf!

like

Joined a call to hear “how’s my sql replication looking? Yeah,!I’m good.)

like

“Just came back from Hawaii, it was beautiful. Lots of good wine”-MD.
Tired analysts: 😒😒

likefunny

“business advice: open the attachment” -RHONY playing in background

likefunny

“Who cares if it doesn’t work! You have to sell the vision!”

likefunnyuplifting

“There are so many layers of Daddy. Book coming soon. How to get one, how to be one, how to keep one!”

funnylike

Heard from me:

“Oh, junior person, you have edits to the monthly activity report 3 days after your deadline to review the report, and after I sent it to the client? How lovely for you."

likefunny

New to Fishbowl?

Download the Fishbowl app to
unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.
That was just a preview…
Sign Up to see all discussions
  • Discover what it’s like to work at companies from real professionals
  • Get candid advice from people in your field in a safe space
  • Chat and network with other professionals in your field
Sign up in seconds to unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.

Already a user?
Login here

Share

Embed this post

Copy and paste embed code on your site

Preview

Download the
Fishbowl app

See what’s happening in your industry
from the palm of your hand.

A phone with Fishbowl app

Scan your QR code to download
Fishbowl app on your mobile

Download app

Sign up for free to view this conversation on Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use and Privacy Policy

Already have an account? Log in

Sign up for free to continue using Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use(New) and Privacy Policy(New)
Messaging rates may apply

Already have an account? Log in

For account settings, visit Fishbowl on Desktop Browser or

General

Legal