Do friends ever dump you onto your therapist or psychiatrist or dismiss your valid, normal feelings as “oh did you tell your doctor about this?” I feel like they’re just shitty friends delegating off.

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They don’t sound like friends. Sorry!

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Maybe I’m contrarian, but sometimes people have no idea how to handle your issues and instead of making shit up they are sending you to the place they see best fit. Second, sometimes people are exhausted with dealing with others (for a million reasons beyond the conversation itself).

You probably know better if either of the above cases are plausible, but just a thought.

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Yes. I think mostly they mean well. Most issues we may bring up to our friends needs professional help.

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