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If you talked to the people you should send them a note and let them know you're going with someone else. That would be the courteous thing to do.
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Is the nice thing to do, even though I completely understand not wanting to hurt feelings or anything. After all you can only have one wedding planner, so better to let the others know so they aren’t waiting. Brief, polite, and direct is the best way and that is a good example already!
OP. General rule of thumb, no one likes to be ghosted. The all knew you were talking to other people. They may even have put a soft hold on the date waiting for your decision. You will have lots of other vendors for which this will be true....florists band/DJ, venue. Photogrpher. Everyone deserves closure.