Welcome, friends! I created this community to meet others in the city during these strange times.

This will primarily serve as a safe space to meet friends. If your vibe is more on the dating end, that's fine too.

Let's be kind, inclusive, and respectful. I've already met some of you in person, looking forward to meet more folks here!

Zanzibar vs Flimores. Which one is the best for a fun boys' night out in Toronto? Or any other recommendations?

Ideas for a night in alone? Feeling Chinese take out to start it right

Currently in a committed relationship and just came to the realization that I have actually never been single in my life. Sometimes I wonder what the single life is like.. just dating and doing whatever I want without having to think about a partner. Any one else ever felt like this? Or been in this situation?

F 39 I’m officially on search for a husband (shamelessly). What do you guys like in a lady, what kind of look grabs your attention? What do I need to wear?? My male friends tell me I need more revealing clothes! 😂

Haven’t done the dating thing in a while so need advice! (F here) Met a guy at a party on Sat, followed each other on insta, then I dm’ed him my number saying “lmk if you want to get drinks sometime”. He then texts me and says something along the lines of “yeah let’s do it” but doesn’t offer any concrete plan. Does this mean he’s not super into it? Or am I overreacting and I should initiate the plan? I initiated the insta follow and the dm so I feel like it’s his turn…?

Went on a short coffee date with a person who was nice, but I just don’t think we’re compatible. What’s a kind text I can send to explain, after they said we should see each other again?

Could anyone suggest a good ladies pg in Marathalli area? Preferably single sharing or double.

Is anyone interested in connecting over coffee?

Best restaurant in NOVA for a date? I'll be visiting and want to wow this woman. Thanks!

I’m actually cheating since I am on Grove Street 😃

Any female fish in the nyc area like dating guys 35+?

Hey

Male here,

Anyone up for weekend catchup and drive ...female preferred ;)

For those of you in your mid-20’s, how often do you go on dates with your significant other? In a serious relationship for the first time since college and trying to gauge what folks consider normal for dating frequency (excluding nights in). Context - we’re 25, dating for 3 months, live 5 mins away from each other, decent WLB

What do you do when you meet someone who absolutely loves some bollywood movie you find cringe. Help 😒

So… are any NJ/NYC people planning a meet up?! 👀

Any single woman up for a drink this evening? 🥳

Any F 🐠 in their 30s in DC interested in connecting?

Hi Fellow Moms/Wives!❤️
Very taboo question.

Anyone else have a hubby with a very low sex drive? I initiate most of the time and it really makes me feel neglected. I have talked to him about it but I think we just have different views on how to feel connected? I think once every 2 weeks is harsh. I prefer 3x-4x a week but he says that is a lot. Am I crazy to expect of this?

How necessary is an extracurricular for MBA apps? I work a ton of hours and don’t have a lot of time or interest in any activity that I could reasonably put on an app. I spend the little free time I have on activities I enjoy (spending time with SO and friends, working out, Netflix, etc). Would it be really bad if I had nothing in that section on my app beyond college extracurriculars? Or should I force some activity? I have enough time before I apply to make it look legit to adcoms.

Does anyone live in Larkspur community in Leander? We are making a buying decision but don’t live in Austin. I have driven around Larkspur briefly but so going to get some first hand info! Thanks!

I'm plopped on the floor buzzed, single AF, surrounded by cats, and I have no regrets tonight.

Anyone have any experience with a company called HAWKSEM? I’m interviewing currently but there’s some red flags I’ve been seeing.. just curious if anyone has any warnings or not

Hey fishes, curious which San Diego companies you think give the best work-life balance. Can be public, private, start-up, etc. BONUS: If you work for one, do you like it there?

Hello all, I'm a junior machine learning engineer and contract is about to end in about a month. So I would love to know some opportunities for which I can apply or get a refferal for the same.

Thank you.

I have been a practicing (patent prosecution) lawyer in different firms for about 20 years. I would love to do something more creative but still techie (computers, telecom, apps, etc.). I've always been interested in improving the software that practicing lawyers use (whether patent-specific or not). I am also kind of an academic at heart, but I live in a locale where professorial jobs are pretty limited and we're rooted here now. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Has anyone done a collab with influencer MIKIRAI? I know she’s a big deal but i’m trying to figure out if she’s worth the money, our agency just had a bad experience with an influencer and the client is not happy. We need to make a comeback! All insights are appreciated.

It's been 3 week with CTS (cognizant). After HR discussion HR said wait for offer letter but no offer letter yet.
YOE 9
Expected CTC 27Lpa
Current 20LPA
Did i ask too much?? Will congnizant not approve my Expected CTC? HR is not picking up what to do?

Hi fishes,

Can anyone tell me if infosys promotion is happening as part if retention? Mostly from jl5 to jl6? Did anyone get promotion as part of retention? in infosys?

Got an interview coming up for Takeda Pharmaceuticals. Position: Marketing Intern.
Any suggestions on how should I prepare myself?

Can anyone hook me up with a referral?
2.5 YOE logistics/transportation experience + 1 YOE in ERP

If I’m on OPT/F-1 Visa do I need to file FBAR? Have not been here for over 5 years yet. Currently in AOS process to receive GC if that makes any difference.

Hey There,
Currently working as Electrical engineer in medical device company. Been applying to few battery and electrical engineering jobs at amazon in seattle and california locations. If anyone could provide referral for the job, that would be very helpful.

Any female fish in the nyc area like dating guys 35+?

how do we successfully and organically meet great people & partners 😵‍💫😭😪

Hey Fishes, looking for safe quiet places for a single person which are quiet but within ~45 min to times square area?

In an attempt to revitalize this bowl
26m seeking opportunity in the relationship sector. I used to be am event coordinator so I have years of exp planning dates. I enjoy relaxing at home but also adventuring into the outside.
If you or anyone you know is looking for a partner in this market please refer me.

Do people actually meet up from this bowl??

Would folks be interested in a NYC singles of fishbowl party? I know a solid venue

Any ladies want to go to happy hour tomorrow? 💁‍♀️ here

Looking for a running buddy in the city. DM me for deetz!

Happy Valentines to all.

Do women like to be bought items out of appreciation ?

Moving to New York from Vancouver (CA). Looking for places to make new friends and meet other singles. Any suggestions for places in NYC? I’m single, 25, M, software sales

Has your pipeline and dating slowed down or is it just me?

Thoughts on casual relationships? How to initiate? Be upfront in the dating app bios or go with the flow.

Hello! Any single men would like to chat? If you’re engaging, not a weirdo, and can a hold convo, you can slide into my dm’s. 30/f/nyc 😋

33M returning to NYC on Saturday. Anyone up for a Sunday brunch, cocktails, or a Central Park workout?

So how does this work? Where to start?

new to the bowl, just saying hi!

Any 40+ women here interested to make new friends? 40+ man here.

A question to all the men in here, what are your age criteria for dating/serious relationships? Is it true that 30+ females have it much harder than females in their 20ties?

Any female fish want to grab a drink this weekend?